THE NEW WORLD

Hello,

I have been active writing 3 consecutive post within few days. I have a lot of free time as I'm nearing my academic year end,and my laptop is with me here at hostel.the time sure seems to fly leaving no back trails of it passing by. These past seven months have showed me how the world works, good and worst about it.

I have read an article lately which my friend sent me some weeks back. It was about 'good guys' being the new 'ASSHOLES'(I'm sorry for using harsh words but...., This is what guys are defined for hurting a woman.),to my surprise I did agree to it that too to a great extent, because coming to think of it, being a good guy doesn't give you the license to bang every woman or date them. let me put it this way, a girl was hurt by a guy, you are there to provide her comfort make her feel good, and during the process you develop feelings for her, you become miserable and you tell her about your feelings, You are friend zoned, suddenly you hate her, all that work has been down to nothing. This is 'not' being a good guy, this is just acting like one to just get along with a girl.

I have an explanation for this, men maintain their distance after they have informed the woman about their feelings as they become a laughing material once they are turned down, this causes them to change their behavior. But think about it a real man knows how to take a rejection and eventually gets strong enough to laugh over it. woman should know, that it takes a lot of courage to come out and speak about feelings being a man, but we do it anyway.

If you think you are a good guy, don't turn into an asshole. Stick around her as friends because you started with her on terms of friendship not love. You being good with her doesn't make you the best choice, it is totally dependent on woman and woman herself. My woman readers please respect his feelings, it must have took every last muscle in his body just to ask you out and just a "NO"crushes every effort of his, propose a counter offer of being along and really being along with him. Please!.
Stop acting weird towards each other if this thing ever happens.

Just to conclude, I had given up on miracles, but this morning my friend told me that the hope trust and her believe in miracles has been restored by her love of life. She isn't even scared about her future (touch-wood). Don't lose hope my friends, if a miracle is supposed to happen it will happen and be sure someone is out there preparing to be the miracle for you.

LIES TOLD!

Hey guys,

I was just sitting at my bed in hostel when I had this weird thought,'how often do we lie to ourselves?'. It's pretty often. Something bad's gonna happen and still we tell ourselves that everything will be all right, You had a break up recently and you tell yourself you are completely over him/her, and best lie among all is "I DON'T CARE".

Why do we do this ? Why do we have to lie to ourselves when we are well aware of the truth? Lies comfort us that is why we do it. I personally hate the phrase "I would have respected you if you told the truth at my face", you all know why ? because if the truth was so easy to hear why would i lie at the first place?. I personally would appreciate someone who lied to me during the tough times, because He/she considered not making matters worse for me with coming up with bad news and bad stuff. people are also called off spoken if they are too straight forward with the situation.

I'm sorry, I don't want to sound angry. The point is, lies make you happy and it is an essential part of life, think about it, without lies would any would have survived till this far? People knocking down each other would be a pretty common scene. Well, there is a bright side to it, we would then be highly pain bearing species.

So, why do we hate the lies? It is simply because we don't want to feel like fools not knowing what really is going on. I cannot come up with any other reason other than this. Can you? please let me know too.

I don't side with lies on everything, sometimes truth should be told. There are essential times when lie is undoubtedly  superior to the truth but mostly the scale weighs other way round on lots of occasions. So, me siding with lies doesn't mean I don't wanna know the truth ever, but I wanna know the truth when times are better for me to listen and handle it.