Hello,
I have been active writing 3 consecutive post within few days. I have a lot of free time as I'm nearing my academic year end,and my laptop is with me here at hostel.the time sure seems to fly leaving no back trails of it passing by. These past seven months have showed me how the world works, good and worst about it.
I have read an article lately which my friend sent me some weeks back. It was about 'good guys' being the new 'ASSHOLES'(I'm sorry for using harsh words but...., This is what guys are defined for hurting a woman.),to my surprise I did agree to it that too to a great extent, because coming to think of it, being a good guy doesn't give you the license to bang every woman or date them. let me put it this way, a girl was hurt by a guy, you are there to provide her comfort make her feel good, and during the process you develop feelings for her, you become miserable and you tell her about your feelings, You are friend zoned, suddenly you hate her, all that work has been down to nothing. This is 'not' being a good guy, this is just acting like one to just get along with a girl.
I have an explanation for this, men maintain their distance after they have informed the woman about their feelings as they become a laughing material once they are turned down, this causes them to change their behavior. But think about it a real man knows how to take a rejection and eventually gets strong enough to laugh over it. woman should know, that it takes a lot of courage to come out and speak about feelings being a man, but we do it anyway.
If you think you are a good guy, don't turn into an asshole. Stick around her as friends because you started with her on terms of friendship not love. You being good with her doesn't make you the best choice, it is totally dependent on woman and woman herself. My woman readers please respect his feelings, it must have took every last muscle in his body just to ask you out and just a "NO"crushes every effort of his, propose a counter offer of being along and really being along with him. Please!.
Stop acting weird towards each other if this thing ever happens.
Just to conclude, I had given up on miracles, but this morning my friend told me that the hope trust and her believe in miracles has been restored by her love of life. She isn't even scared about her future (touch-wood). Don't lose hope my friends, if a miracle is supposed to happen it will happen and be sure someone is out there preparing to be the miracle for you.
I have been active writing 3 consecutive post within few days. I have a lot of free time as I'm nearing my academic year end,and my laptop is with me here at hostel.the time sure seems to fly leaving no back trails of it passing by. These past seven months have showed me how the world works, good and worst about it.
I have read an article lately which my friend sent me some weeks back. It was about 'good guys' being the new 'ASSHOLES'(I'm sorry for using harsh words but...., This is what guys are defined for hurting a woman.),to my surprise I did agree to it that too to a great extent, because coming to think of it, being a good guy doesn't give you the license to bang every woman or date them. let me put it this way, a girl was hurt by a guy, you are there to provide her comfort make her feel good, and during the process you develop feelings for her, you become miserable and you tell her about your feelings, You are friend zoned, suddenly you hate her, all that work has been down to nothing. This is 'not' being a good guy, this is just acting like one to just get along with a girl.
I have an explanation for this, men maintain their distance after they have informed the woman about their feelings as they become a laughing material once they are turned down, this causes them to change their behavior. But think about it a real man knows how to take a rejection and eventually gets strong enough to laugh over it. woman should know, that it takes a lot of courage to come out and speak about feelings being a man, but we do it anyway.
If you think you are a good guy, don't turn into an asshole. Stick around her as friends because you started with her on terms of friendship not love. You being good with her doesn't make you the best choice, it is totally dependent on woman and woman herself. My woman readers please respect his feelings, it must have took every last muscle in his body just to ask you out and just a "NO"crushes every effort of his, propose a counter offer of being along and really being along with him. Please!.
Stop acting weird towards each other if this thing ever happens.
Just to conclude, I had given up on miracles, but this morning my friend told me that the hope trust and her believe in miracles has been restored by her love of life. She isn't even scared about her future (touch-wood). Don't lose hope my friends, if a miracle is supposed to happen it will happen and be sure someone is out there preparing to be the miracle for you.
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